Seven I of soul. 7 roles of the team. 7 faces of the soul. 7 types of character (english edition)

ENERGY OF LIFE

The souls of men and women, as well as the souls of all other animate creatures, are arranged identically. There are no exclusively male or exclusively female feelings; there are no exclusively male or exclusively female roles. There are also women with a heroic character. Such woman “… will stop the horse at a gallop, enter the burning log hut”.

The woman with fire in a soul was sung by V. Vysotsky in one of the songs of a climbing cycle:

 
I asked you “Why are you going up the hill?” —
And you were going to the top, and you were spoiling for a fight. —
Elbrus is seen great from the plane…
You sniggered and took with you.
Since you became close and affectionate…
 

In the characteristic of the heroine of a song specified the qualities of soul connected with a heroic dominant of character: inspiration, tenderness, affectionateness and also charisma – ability to lead (words are turned to her: “I tried to keep step with you from the last force’).

Women with a heroic dominant character are called “fatal women”. Because of them they “lose their heads”, “go crazy with passion”, they get carried away, they are jealous, because of them they shoot at duelling, commit suicide, let down the fortunes, rob banks, raise riots, overthrow governments and make revolutions. Meet the fatal woman – to lose half life. Will shake up all soul.

Considering portraits and photographs of famous femme fatale women, studying the certificates of their contemporaries, it can be noticed that most of them did not differ in external beauty. Fatal femme women are attracted not by external beauty, but by an inner fire.

The body’s energy system is responsible for sexuality and sexual ability. It is not for nothing that the chakra “svadhisthana” (the center of the body’s energy system) is called the sexual chakra. People with a heroic character are different in the irrepressible tendency to sex. Women with a developed energy system, sometimes even at a distance, have an ardour emanating from the “svadhisthana” chakra. It is not by accident the womb where women are bearing children, is located near this chakra. They say about such women that they become pregnant from the first kiss.

Generally speaking, behind the word “love” can be hidden different feelings. Therefore, usually to the word “love” add a certain epithet – specify the hue, type, kind of love. People with a heroic character are characterized by fervent love and tender love. It not for nothing to say about the Hero-lover: “He is passionate and gentle” – cause an ardour, passion and tenderness are connected with the same role of the Hero.

But, it is known, the Hero-lover – he is not only passionate and gentle, but also light-headed. Laura from “the Stone Guest” not for nothing called Don Guang “my light-headed lover”. “The object of passion and tender feelings” the Hero often changes. One and the same “object of love” quickly becomes boring for the Hero, it becomes boring, and people with a heroic dominant character do not tolerate boredom. The boredom drives them away. That is why their love is changeable.

People with a heroic character sometimes meet so-called “Casanova complex”. They need to achieve the desired goal associated with danger and risk. Without the passion of sex, they are bored – after all, they need a storm of passion, a flurry of feelings.

Everyone knows the feelings associated with the role of the Hero: an inspiration, boredom and tenderness. Each person has a heroic beginning. Another thing that is one people have a lot of this heroic beginning but other people not enough.

With age the power of the body becomes weak, the heroic beginning decreases, feelings are cool down. They usually say about the person who has lost before an ardour of the soul:

 
But early feelings has cool down…
(“Eugene Onegin”)
 

The heroic beginning is called the energy of life. They say about people whose character lacks heroic qualities:

 
There is no life in them, all dolls are waxen…
(“Stone Guest”).
 

From boredom and from such “waxen dolls” Pushkin’s Don Guang has run away to Madrid.

…

When Lev Nikolaevich Gumiliov defended the dissertation according to the passionate theory of ethnogenesis, one of the members of dissertation council asked him: “Can you explain on fingers who are passionarians?” “Understand! Not all people are grabbers”, – replied Gumiliov. This is true. Not all people are grabbers. There are also “Heroes-passionaries”. But there are grabbers too. It will be discussed about grabbers in the next paragraph.

§3. GRABBER

GRABBERS SOUL

There are people who are called “grabbers”.

Grabbers possess an increased susceptibility of the nervous system and a rapid reaction. The grabbers have increased skin sensitivity, perhaps, is due to the fact that many nerve endings come to the surface of the skin.

Grabber’s role, three feelings are connected: greed (avarice), distrust (suspicion) and anxiety (concern, frustration).

GREED

The feeling of greed, avarice, lust, associated with the grabber’s role, generates the desire to possess the object of lust. Greed and avarice are constantly encouraging grabber to use his chance, not to miss the prey, to have time to grab, to get ahead of others, to jerk to himself in time. That is why grabbers are called grabbers and graspers. They have a very developed “grasping reflex”.

The grabber is a lover of freebie and easy profit. Selfish greed, the desire to grab on the cheap generates a rush demand, when they throw out a scarce commodity. When to the hungry throw “or the fight-dog” the object of their lust, they, fuelled with greed, arrange among themselves selfish bickering.

Greed is the source of envy: “another grabbed, he got it, but I did not!” – enviable. They say about grabbers: “Greedy folk have long arms”.

The grabber – he is not only a grasper and a grabber, but he is also still cormorant and cheapskate, he is a miser and a chuff. grabbers do not like the word “to buy” very much, because “to buy” means “to give money”. They prefer the word “to obtain”, that is, “to make a raise”, “to take”, “to find”, “to get a gift”, “to steal”, and only in the most extreme case, after bargaining, “to buy”.

If the grabber buys something, then only on the cheap. He will not pay an extra kopeck. Before buying something, the grabber will always find the lowest price. He always knows what, where and how much. This can be seen in Judas. This is what the Gospel of John says:

Mariia, taking a pound of backgammon pure precious world, has spread Jesu’s legs and wiped His legs with her hair; and the house filled with the fragrance of the world.

Then one of His disciples, Judas Simonov Iscariot,

who wanted to betray him, said:

Why not sell this chrism for three hundred denarius…

…because there was a thief

He had a cash drawer with him and wore that they lowered there.

(John 12: 3—6)

Judas who as a result has sold Jesus for 30 silver coins was a treasurer in the company of Jesus and his apostles: “he had a cash drawer with him and wore that they lowered there’. The thirst for money is a very selfish tendency of nature.

The grabber – thief. He is an evident thief or a thief in the depths of his soul. The grabber all “self” clings to his hands. If giddy-person always loses everything, then grabber, on the contrary, as if gathers by itself.

The grabber – hoarder. He drags to the house everything that will get, everything that “badly lies”. His house is filled with unused junk. When moving to another house the grabber gets boxes with junk. There is only one way to make grabber get rid of junk – to persuade to sell. But he won’t sell cheap.

An example of a selfish woman – a Box from Gogol’s “Dead Souls”, which thought, how not to undersell, she wanted to sell more expensive “dead souls”. Another example of a selfish character – a squirrel from the cartoon “Ice Age”.

The notion of property – the notion of the “eternal and integral” right of a person to private property – has grown from a selfish greed: “Mine! I will not give it!” grabbers are ardent owners, zealous apologists of a private property.

The grabber considers the wife (or husband) own property too. The grabber has always a marriage of convenience. grabbers like to conclude the marriage contract. For them, marriage is a deal “you – me, I – you”. When divorcing the selfish person will certainly try to bargain more junk.

Grabbers are very jealous. Jealousy – generation of greed too. Mutual jealousy is called the competition. Competition arises when one is jealous of others as the object of lust. Competing with others, the jealous person strives to get ahead of everyone, before reaching the desired goal. The competitor is encouraged with a feeling of greed and lust.

No need to assume that greed, envy, greed are bad feelings. For example, A.S. Pushkin believed that “Envy is a competition sister, consequently from a good kind”. The poet presumable has written this phrase in 1831. (First published by P. V. Annenkov in the Collected Poems, 1855, vol. I, p. 288.)

Grabbers are called “stuffy” people. They say about them: “from greed the toad strangles”.

Grabbers eat a little, economically, if at their own expense, but at other expense eat greedily, until dumping. Their motto is: “What I do not eat – then I will bite’

Grabbers can be good speculators and second-hand dealers. These are bright and prudent businessmen who measure everything on money and sensitively react to change of market condition. Their god is – the Golden Taurus. They are corrupt and unprincipled. For the sake of profit, grabbers will easily break laws and moral standards.

Grabbers are self-serving people. Self-interest – this is a vested interest. The grabber is looking for benefits in everything. He lives according to the saying: “The fish seeks, where is deeper, the man – where is the best”. He works only if he sees a direct personal benefit for himself. Whatever he does, wherever he serves, the grabber always works only for himself. For the sake of the idea, for the sake of society, the grabber won’t work. On grabber “where you sit down – there you go down”. It is better for him to use piecework payment for labour. At the time rate, the grabber will work with “the left hand”: and why should he work at all if they pay for the time spent at work?

The most favourite position of grabbers in an army is a position of the supplier, quartermaster. At all times, in all countries, all peoples had quartermasters who stole supplies and rations. Not for nothing to say: “To whom – war, and to whom – mother dear”. Therefore, the order in the army always began to lead from the fact that the thieves-quartermasters were shot. Generalissimo Suvorov not for nothing said that any quartermaster, who served for two years in one place, can be hung without trial and investigation.

MISTRUST

Another feeling associated with the role of the grabber is a feeling of distrust, suspicion, doubt, scepticism.

The grabber is extremely distrustful. Like Thomas unbeliever, he will not believe until he feels it.

Thomas… told them:

if I see wounds on His arms from nails,

and do not put my finger in wounds from nails,

and do not put my hand in His ribs I will not believe.

(John 20:24,25)

Mistrust creates a way to check everything. The grabber never asks the road once. At first, he will ask the road from one passerby, and then will begin to ask the same about the other.

Mistrust and suspicion generates grabbers to have such feature of the character, as caution, circumspection, the desire to “keep their head down”.

Greed together with distrustfulness makes grabbers to be thrifty. Especially they like to stock up with gratuitous or cheap things. They have long-term stocks, and at the real grabbers – and multiten-year stocks.

Grabbers” suspicion is shown in their aspiration everywhere and in everything to see someone’s intrigues. They sow the relations of general mistrust and suspiciousness, strive to arrange “witch-hunt”.

The suspicion and distrust of the grabbers can be outweighed only by their greed. The feeling of distrust and suspicion is always mixed up with a feeling of greed and jealousy; both these feelings are associated with grabber’s role. The grabbers conflict of distrustfulness and greed is a source of grasping habit.

If the grabbers give money, then only for a credit, at interest, only with benefit, only for a loan or other guarantees. But on the pledge of the word they do not give for a loan. They “do not beg for snow in the winter”.

It is better not to lend money to grabber – he will do everything not to back the money. You can completely lose contact with the selfish buddy if you give him a small amount of money for a loan – he will stop meet with you under any pretexts, just not to back money.

As grabbers are tended to the theft, they the first notice other thieves – “a fisherman sees a fisherman afar”. They suspect all in theft and laceration aspirations, because they are familiar.

The role of the suspicious grabber is a role of a watchdog who watches for a junk. And often this is the role of “dog in the manger” – it does not eat and does not give to others.

The suspiciousness of grabbers makes them vigilant. It is almost impossible to slip past the self-guard, caretaker or auditor. But he can be bribed. It will not be cheap, but possible. grabber’s motto: “Serving the Fatherland, do not forget yourself!”

The feeling of mistrust is also called a feeling of scepticism, a feeling of doubt. grabbers this is people who are sceptical, doubtful at all, taking nothing for granted. grabbers are people of a critical mind, they are pragmatists and realists.

The fashionable phrase that “real people sit on unfaithfulness” (i.e. doubt everything, do not trust to nothing and to nobody, check everything and recheck) is one more illustration to feature of the character of the grabber-realist. The feeling of mistrust is called the feeling of the real.

The developed feeling of mistrust and suspiciousness of grabbers generates a tendency to hide and conceal money and valuable things. “It is a quiet Ukrainian night, but you have to hide fat!” – this is about grabber. It happens that grabber on a drunk “will break for treason” – he will hide money, but, when become sober, he can not find them.

Realism, distrustfulness, thrift, business grasp this is what called the pragmatism. The pragmatism – is a selfish feature. Therefore, the role of the grabber can also be called the role of the Pragmatist.

ANXIETY

Except greed and distrustfulness, in a selfish corner, in a selfish nook of soul, there still lives the feeling of an anxiety, concern, frustration.

The feeling of anxiety (concern, frustration) in a strong manifestation is called a state of “nervous platoon”, nervous excitement, annoyance. When a person does not want to go into such an emotional state, he says: “Do not nervous, do not irritate me!”

The person who, having looked at the watch, has understood that he has overslept that he is late usually passes into a condition of nervous excitement. He jumps sharply and begins to gather feverishly quickly. The “alarm” command, which sounds in the army, in the fire departments, at the frontier post, just calls to this nervous-feverish state. At the same time the siren howls, the flasher blinks. This is done specifically to increase the feeling of an anxiety, to increase nervous excitement.

The condition of nervous excitement a person who is forced to do several special, urgent things at the same time usually have. In such emotional state the squirrel from the cartoon “Ice Age” feverishly was gathering scattered nuts. Such a state of mind happens to the mother, when she is “all on her nerves”, urges her child: “Come on! Come on! Move faster! A little time!”, to take him to the kindergarten.

Feeling of an anxiety, concern, frustration sometimes call a stress. Stress is constantly exposed to residents of large cities with a high rate of life. When a provincial comes to a large or metropolitan city, it seems to him that everyone around him “runs like a fever”.

Long stay on a nervous platoon – leads to nervous breakdowns, hysterics, psychoses. When a person has broke, being on a nervous platoon, they say: “Why are you crazy about? What, do nerves play pranks?”

The role of the grabber is the role of the person responsible for achieving the result within a specified time. grabbers become beautiful magnificent administrators, managers, clerks and businessmen. They are smart, distrustful, vigilant. They manage to make affairs on time.

The boss, who constantly urges: “Come on! Come on! Move faster! A little time!”, which requires subordinates to achieve the result within a set time, is called a demanding leader. Such person “seven fells will lower”, but will achieve. Insistence is the feature of character generated by feeling of concern, anxiety.

Grabbers internally accurate people. They do not like slackness. For this reason, grabbers do not wear shoes without backdrops, without heels. They prefer practical clothes of military or sports cut – functional and not holding down movements.

Grabbers perfectly are able to keep within standards. Often the life of the grabber is divided into “technological operations”. For example, many of them get up “on program”. From the moment of ascent all movements are worked out to automatism – there are no delays, no expectations, no time is spent for “rocking”. It is in order to organize life in this way, and statutes have been created in the army.

The feeling of concern is called feeling of control, business mood. Such emotional state of the grabber V.?Vysotsky expressed in lines:

 
He is a bead, collected, tense
And doesn’t look for trouble…
 

Grabbers are vigilant, responsible, accurate, smart and disciplined. They are called “lapped”. They have everything in sight. They have everything under control. grabbers remember everything, forget nothing, and especially – who, whom, what and how much.

Grabbers are excellent innovators and optimizers. They are able to achieve the result on time with the least effort. They extremely straighten a way to the purpose, reject all superfluous, all not connected with achievement of result. Only the grabbers really understand that the deadlines are the most important: “the testicle is dear to Christ’s day”.

There are a lot of grabbers in an army among mercenaries. These are professional employees. They are able to keep within standards. No need to expect feats and heroism from them, but they know their business well and can do their work. grabber is not a Hero. He will not go with a grenade to the tank; he will not run into a bayonet attack. But the self-defender will take the trophies and will not miss the opportunity to maraud, plunder.

The grabber is a robber. And the robbers go only to easy and reliable booty. 40 robbers will never attack 5 soldiers. The soldiers have nothing to take, and besides, the soldiers will fight back. The extraction of robbers will be easy. The grabber is not cowardly, but prudent. He is incredulous and does not like to risk in vain. The Hero does not need the risk for the sake of risk; the grabber does not need such risk.

In order thee grabber could show his qualities – speed, accuracy, business acumen – he should be given such an opportunity. The grabber should be offered a specific scheme of actions that would give him immediate, tangible benefits. And when the “rules of the game” will be defined (the goal and methods of achieving will be specified), the grabber will be the first to achieve the result. He will improve the methods, discard all unnecessary, all not related to the achievement of the goal.

Grabber’s life is similar to a sprinting treadmill, on which he runs swiftly and does not turn around anywhere. There is no “untouched virgin land” and “unrestricted roads” for him, but he is very good at catching what is floating in his hands. grabber will not miss the chance.

NERVOUSNESS OF EXISTENCE

Grabbers are pragmatists and realists, but their “realism” often pours out in limitation. grabbers find it difficult to change and develop their conceptual system. That is why grabbers are stubborn debaters. They argue to blue in the face at the slightest pretext. The dispute for them is a method of assimilation, but, having assimilated them before, they will argue that this is what they previously meant.

The grabbers can “go in cycles” in the same ideas (the ideas “fix”) and logically built schemes. It is difficult for the grabber to change his views – for this, he needs to “break his brains”. It is impossible to persuade the grabber He will furiously argue, defending his established beliefs and logical schemes.

Grabbers are not creative. They do not generate radically new ideas, they do not create new theories, but they can very quickly bring the already created theory to logical completeness (logical absurdity). The grabber in science is a typical scientist who stamps an article for an article, a thesis for a thesis, developing and improving already created theories.

Because of the unwillingness to change and develop their conceptual system, grabbers have extremely limited outlook. They are tremendously ignorant in everything that goes beyond their specific activities. grabbers are not able to dream and don’t want. They prefer a “titmouse in the hand” and “the crane in the sky” they not only do not see, but do not even want to look at the sky.

Grabbers – are people who are tough-minded and rational. They do not like prefaces. If to begin to explain to the grabber a situation and motives, then he, by all means, will interrupt and will ask: “And to what these reasonings?” Just like that, without the purpose, the grabber will not listen to. He is only interested in what can be specific, immediately applied in practice with immediate benefit to him. No general knowledge, knowledge for general development, to expand the outlook can not be shoved to the grabber.

Grabbers do not like any rationality in the world around them. They really do not like to give flowers – they hate the uselessness of this thing. To buy flowers for the grabber is to throw money away. If grabbers present (not without difficulty, but it is necessary), then only useful from their point of view things. It is better for grabbers to present them money.

Unlike the Hero who does not understand at all that in the world there are laws and rules, the grabber tries to observe laws. He knows how to use the laws. The grabber is pragmatic. He does not crawl into trouble, does not run into hardship without weighty reason. But if he sees a selfish interest, then grabber rejects any conventions, step over any laws.

Thanks to the developed nervous system, people, with an overabundance of selfishness, are able to control not only everything what is going on around them, but also themselves, i.e., they are capable to self-control. In particular, grabbers can control themselves in a dream. For example, they can wake up in time fixed to themselves without an alarm clock. Accordingly, people with a large lack of selfishness, people with reduced selfishness – they badly control themselves in a dream. For example, up to adult years, such people can urinate in a dream.

The developed nervous system does not allow grabbers to relax. grabbers are drunkards of the so-called “British school”. When the grabbers drink, they become hopeless, but not “cut off”, do not fall asleep suddenly. grabbers do not fall asleep until at least a little sober.

Painkillers do not work well for grabbers or act for a very short time. “Local anaesthesia” of the usual dose almost does not dull their pain. Therefore, even simple operations (like treatment or extraction of teeth) is better for the grabbers to do under general anaesthesia – when the mechanism for assembling images in the mind is completely turned off.

Grabbers are not indifferent to the aching, hoarse and creaking sounds from which all over the skin. They or adore, “go bananas” and “are wild” from such disturbing, hoarse sounding (creaking metal rock), or don’t accept him (dental drill).

For grabbers the world is divided into “fools and scoundrels”. Such views had a mother of the heroine of the novel “What to do?” of N.G.Chernyshevsky, who wanted to marry her daughter more favourably.

There are no bad or good roles. Each role has its own purpose. For example, the assignment of the Hero’s role – to find, start, open, and they find, start, open, however, they do not continue what they started, they do not finish the cases – they are bored with it. The heroes throw the started and get carried away with the new. Assigning of the grabber’s is an effective implementation in practice, translation into action, achievement of a concrete result. grabber – implementer.

Each person has a selfish nook, selfish snug in his soul. Each person has a selfish beginning. Each person knows the selfish feelings: envy, anxiety and mistrust. Another thing is that some people have a lot of selfishness, but others have it not enough. Shortage of selfishness makes a person impractical, sluggish, unassembled, makes an inadvertist and a sprawling, makes unlucky in life.

Selfishness gives a person critical thinking. The lack of selfishness deprives the mind of a person of scepticism and criticism. People with a lack of selfishness are easily subjected to ideological treatment, they easily become “zombie” – they believe in logical, but not viable ideas. They have no feeling of deception. They can easily be lured into sects, into financial pyramids and other business adventures. They have no engineering feeling – the mechanisms designed by them do not work, constructions collapse, cars do not go, planes do not fly.

If the character of a person is not very selfish, then he lacks pragmatism and business acumen. People, with a lack of selfishness in character, can not be engaged in business – their transactions will be unprofitable. The grabber’s role should be at least one of the prevailing roles in the character of a businessman.

In order any, even very good affair, move, it is necessary to turn it into business. The formula for success is: “If you can give something to this world, sell it to it”. Enthusiasm is necessary at the initial stage, but on the bare enthusiasm, you will not go far. In order the affair move, it must bring in income, give benefit, profit. Otherwise, the affair will stop. To begin business here is necessary the Hero enthusiast and to continue the business, it is necessary to turn him into business, and here is necessary pragmatic grabber.

They say that genius is a combination of talent with the ability to break through. The ability to break through is one of the manifestations of selfish pragmatism, selfish grasp. Without selfish ability to break through any talent is doomed to be an eternal loser.

The Bible in the book of Ecclesiastes said:

 
Not quick get a successful run, not brave – a victory, not wise – bread,
not for the reasonable – wealth and not for the skilful – favour,
but time and a case for all of them. Because the person doesn’t know the time.
(Ecclesiastes 9:11)
 

It is very important in life to be able to use the turned-up event, it is important not to miss your chance. But it is never impossible to guess in advance when he turns up, “because the person does not know the time”. Only the grabber is ready to meet his chance. The selfishness is responsible for the ability of the person in time to grab necessary to him.

To begin business here is necessary the Hero enthusiast and to continue the business, it is necessary to turn him into business, and here is necessary pragmatic grabber. Enthusiasm is necessary at the initial stage, but on the bare enthusiasm you will not go far – the Hero will soon cool down, it will be boring for him. In order the case move, it is necessary to involve and operate the selfishness beginning which each person has.

In other words, to make any, even very good case, move, it is necessary to turn it into a commercial enterprise, into a business. Commercialization of the project is a necessary condition for its success. The formula for success is: “If you can give something to this world, sell it to the world’. And they say: “The dream will come true if it turns into a business plan”.